My Budapest Hen Do: A Real Maid of Honour's Review

Editor's Note (December 2025): This real story from a past maid of honour has been updated with the latest tips for Ruin Bars and Spa Parties in 2026.

I had a hard time picking where we should go for my best friend Daisy’s hen do. As a group of friends, we’ve been to a lot of hen weekend destinations—Barcelona, Prague, Albufeira. Daisy wanted something different.

After chatting to my brother who had just come back from a stag do in Budapest, it sounded like the perfect mix of quirky and cool that Daisy would love. So, we booked it!

Accommodation & Arrival

After arriving and travelling to our hotel (which was very nice and centrally located), we spent a couple of hours exploring. Budapest is a beautiful city with such a friendly atmosphere that we all felt welcomed immediately.

We popped into one or two bars for a "quick one," but I tried to encourage us not to spend too long there because I had big plans for the evening.

Night One: The Ruin Bar Tour

So, what the hell is a Ruin Bar? I asked the exact same question when booking!

Basically, a ruin bar is a bar set up in an abandoned building—old homes, factories, or commercial premises. They are filled with mismatched furniture, weird art, and have a vibe like a huge house party.

I’d booked a Ruin Bar Tour because these places can be hard to find. Having a local guide was a great idea. Daisy loves weird bars, and she really enjoyed experiencing all of these strange, wonderful places. It was the perfect introduction to Budapest nightlife.

Day Two: Recovery & The Spa Party

The next day was one of recovery. We hadn’t got back until 4 am, so it took until midday before we could even think about moving! After some painkillers and lunch, we explored the city's beautiful architecture.

But the highlight was Saturday evening. I’d booked us into the Thermal Spa Party (or "Sparty"). It is exactly what it sounds like: a huge party in a thermal spa, soundtracked by amazing dance music with laser shows.

Is it as good as it sounds? YES! The atmosphere was electric. It’s a weird experience partying in a bikini in a warm bath, but I’d do it again in a heartbeat.

The Verdict

Budapest was an absolutely amazing destination. Daisy hasn’t stopped talking about it since. It offers something totally unique compared to the standard beach hen do.

The Stag and Hen Experience has been creating bespoke weekends since 2009. If you want to replicate this itinerary, get in touch on 01202 566100 or browse our Essential Budapest Hen Guide to start planning.